How to not be mad at your girlfriend
How to Stop Getting Angry at Your Girlfriend or Wife
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if you tend to get angry at your
girlfriend or wife fairly often one of
the main reasons why will be that you're
expecting her to be more like you in
other words be consistent be logical
makes sense don't create any drama be
straightforward and so on yet that's
just not gonna happen because she's a
woman and she's gonna want to behave
like a woman there's nothing wrong with
a man behaving like a man and there's
nothing wrong with a woman behaving like
a woman in fact when a man behaves like
a man and lets his woman behave like a
woman they will naturally feel sexually
attracted to each other it's when a man
expects his woman to be more like a man
that the sexual attraction between them
begins to fade away so if you want to
enjoy a happy attracted and in love
relationship with your woman you have to
allow her to be a woman and at times
that's gonna mean she behaves in ways
that you wouldn't behave and that you
might think silly or are childish and so
on so what's an example well imagine
that a man is sitting on the sofa with
his woman on a Saturday evening they're
just kicking back and relaxing and he
then says hey honey let's go and watch a
movie and she says no I don't want to go
and watch your movie movies are boring
at that point some guys will get angry
at their woman and say why you're being
like this you know we have fun when we
go and watch a movie I want to go and
relax
I've been working hard all weekend I
want to go and just keep back and watch
a movie and unwind why are you being
like this yet that's not an effective
approach to use in a relationship with a
woman you don't need to drag yourself
into unnecessary drama with a woman you
just don't need to create that type of
stress for yourself there are better
ways to handle it so for example if he
said hey honey let's go and watch a
movie and she said no I don't want to go
and watch a movie movies are boring he
can then say something like yeah cool
well let's just kick back and relax down
watching TV then because he didn't react
in an angry way and was able to maintain
control of his emotions she is then
going to feel like the one who has
messed up she's gonna feel like she was
being a bit of a pain in the butt in
that situation so then 15 minutes 30
minutes or maybe even an hour later she
might say something like well what
movies are on he can then continue to
maintain control of his emotions check
what movies are on and talk about it and
they can go
watch a movie and enjoy themselves that
night as a result of using that approach
he didn't need to waste loads of energy
and stress out getting into arguments
with her and create divisions between
him and her for example if a woman said
hey so what movies are on after an hour
some guys will get angry at that and say
well now you want to watch a movie I
said I wanted to watch a movie an hour
ago now you want to watch it well it's
too late now and then get into an
argument with her about it that is not
an effective approach to use in a
relationship with a woman you don't need
to drag yourself into unnecessary drama
with a woman and one of the other
reasons in addition to not wasting your
energy on that sort of stuff is that if
you create drama
with a woman based on those sort of
things she will almost certainly end up
making it out to be your fault because
you will end up becoming angry she will
end up saying that you're being
ridiculous you're scaring her or
whatever and it will end up being your
fault so don't play the angry game in
the drama game with a woman the best
approach is to maintain control of your
emotions and interact with her in ways
that make her respect you make her treat
you better make her behave better
the thing is when in a relationship
sometimes when a man says to his woman
hey let's go and watch a movie she will
say yeah cool let's go honey or
sometimes she'll come over and snuggle
into him give him a kiss and say 1:00
and watch a movie honey and she'll be
really sweet about it but sometimes
she'll be in a bit of a mood and as a
man you need to be prepared for that you
need to be prepared for the fact that
she's not gonna be consistent and
straightforward like a man you're not
wrong for behaving like a man and she's
not wrong for behaving like a woman if
you allow her to behave like a woman and
have those little moments where she
isn't being consistent and you don't get
angry then she's gonna feel so much more
respect attraction and love for you as a
result she'll naturally feel the
motivation to be a good girl for you
she'll want to be on her best behavior
or be on better behavior and get better
and better for you over time she won't
want to continue being a pain in the
butt when you interact with her in ways
that let her realize that it's her fault
rather than you getting angry getting
into a huge argument and her
making it out to be your fault okay I
hope you've enjoyed this video and
learned something from it if you'd like
to learn more I recommend that you watch
or listen to my program make her love
you for life when you watch or listen to
the program you will learn techniques
that take the stress out of being in a
relationship with a woman you will learn
how to bring out the best in her how to
make her treat you with more respect
be more attracted to you be more loving
and be a good girl for you as a result
you and her can get on with enjoying
your relationship together and not
having to waste time and energy getting
into stressful arguments that don't need
to happen in the first place one final
point that I want to make for you in
this video is to point out the fact that
sometimes a woman will say something
that she doesn't mean just to test how
you'll react for example a woman will
say that she doesn't like movies and
they're boring even though she likes
going to movies and she enjoys eating
some popcorn and kicking back with her
boyfriend or husband one of the reasons
why a woman will do that is based on her
instinctive need to feel safe with a man
right she wants to be able to see that
you can handle yourself emotionally you
don't lose control of your emotions and
get rattled by things based on what
other people are saying and doing you
are an emotionally independent man you
can handle yourself in social situations
you're the sort of man that other men
naturally respect because you have your
stuff together when you're in a
situation socially people can see that
you don't get rattled by what they're
saying or doing you are in control of
your emotions as a result people respect
you more and as a result of that your
woman feels safer with you so one of the
most important roles that a woman plays
in a man's life when in a relationship
is to make him emotionally stronger if
her man is unable to handle her
challenges and tests and loses control
of his emotions all the time and gets
angry or sulks and whines and complains
then she will know that he isn't yet
strong enough for a woman like her he
doesn't have the emotional strength that
she wants in a man to feel safe yet when
a man can handle his woman's tests and
doesn't lose control of his emotions and
get angry or whine and complain and sulk
then she can look up to him and respect
him she naturally feels a deep respect
attraction and love for him and
as a result she feels motivated to be a
good woman for him her tests start to go
down because she knows that he is man
enough for her and her good behavior
starts to go up and up and up over time
she becomes a better and better woman
for him and as a result both him and her
are happier together
so if you've been getting angry with
your girlfriend or wife then just
understand that there are other ways to
approach the situation you don't have to
waste energy and time getting into
pointless arguments with a woman who
will end up making it out to be your
fault anyway there are better ways to
approach it
the best approach to take is to maintain
control of your emotions and interact
with her in a way that brings out the
best in her get her to be a better woman
for you
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