hello welcome to my channel you are the
one where we talk all things law of
assumption and today we are talking
about whether or not it's possible to
date your celebrity crush and the reason
that we're talking about this is because
a couple of people have asked this
question
and it reminded me of my experience of
dating my celebrity crush when i was a
bit younger
and that is what i'm going to share with
you today i'm going to share with you my
story so that you know it's possible
because
in reality in this amazing experience
called life
anything is possible and i want to share
with you a story that proves that today
so stick around
my name is hedley durenze i'm a
qualified life coach i'm an author and
i'm super passionate about the amazing
teachings of the law of assumption as
originally taught by the great american
mystic neville goddard it is the stories
that we tell that create our life so if
you want to change any part of your life
then you have to start by changing the
story first and if you want to create
the most amazing life it really helps to
know how to tell the most amazing
stories and that's where these teachings
can help and that's why i'm here i want
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into it okay today we are talking about
is it possible to date your celebrity
crush somebody recently asked the
question of can you date your celebrity
crush or something along those lines and
somebody has also asked that question in
the past and i had intended to answer it
based on my own experience where i know
that it is absolutely possible to date
your celebrity crush if that is
something that you want to do but also
it's just nice to know that these things
that we assume might be impossible are
actually possible and so that is why i
want to share this story with you today
just as simple evidence whatever you
might consider impossible is possible
and that's my purpose with sharing any
story
is to enable you or to help you to know
that what you might consider impossible
is actually possible if i feel like i've
lost the magic or i feel like um you
know something is impossible i'll be
like hang on a second you know that's
not true because of this experience
which i'm going to share with you now
when i was about 14 years old
now i just want to preface this by
saying as i was growing up i was not one
of those young girls who was into
celebrities or famous people or anything
like that i didn't have posters on my
wall i wasn't that kind of person
until this guy showed up on my screen of
the television there was a television
show that was extremely popular when i
was growing up when i was 14 and it
starred an actor
who
when i saw i was completely mesmerized
and quickly became obsessed with i was
very quick to cut his posters out and
put them on my wall and stick his photos
on in my school diary and this guy was
uber famous he was
the lead actor on the lead television
show around the world
um he was like the hottest thing in
hollywood at the time and probably
people i'm not gonna say who it is um
but people who are of my generation
would know probably the younger
generation would not know who i'm
talking about because um he's not as
famous today as he was back then but
back then he was the hottest thing in
the world because his television show
which he was the star of was the number
one television show in the world what i
remember most about this was every
monday night when his show was on and i
would sit in front of the television and
he came on the screen the joy
that i felt in my body i would be
laughing at the television screen
because this guy was i just found him so
attractive and so good looking and just
so mesmerizing he just brought up joy he
ignited joy in me all my friends and
everyone at school knew that i was
obsessed with him i even had a crush on
a guy who was a bit older than me who
looked like this actor fast forward um
to when i was in my early 20s about
21-22 i moved to los angeles and i
wanted to be a writer and one of my best
girlfriends my best girlfriend over
there she was a fashion director for a
magazine so i was doing some work for
her and she put in a good word with the
editor and the editor gave me a break to
become a writer and he sent me off to an
event in hollywood i had no experience
i'd never done any writing before i'd
never done any journalism i just wanted
to be a writer and he just said to me
look i'm giving you a chance
make sure you interview anyone famous
that was my only instruction interview
anyone famous and i was fine i had no
problem like walking up to people and um
or famous people and asking them
questions and i had a list of questions
with me so i was very prepared and i had
a photographer who was assigned uh to to
the job with me it was a fashion parade
and it was a club opening and whatever
the free bar so i'm like having a few
drinks and it's just a little bit of fun
and then there was a bit of commotion at
the front door and suddenly there were
all these cameras and lights and people
and there was this kind of crowd of like
throng of people through this crowd
i saw coming into the club um in the
center of this whirlwind was this actor
that i had grown up
idolizing like i was just like
mesmerized and i said to jimmy my
photographer was like oh my god oh my
god look who's here look who's here and
jimmy who'd seen it all and was not
fazed by hollywood um or famous people
at all he was like oh well you you know
you gotta interview him and i'm like no
no no no there's no way i can't
interview this guy like you have no idea
so i like ran to the back of the club
like i actually ran the opposite
direction i was like mortified i was
just so overwhelmed by what was
happening
and so jimmy unbeknownst to me went up
to this guy
and got him to come over and so i was
standing at the back of the club and
this guy with all the cameras and the
lights and the people is coming towards
me and he just comes up to me and he
goes hi i'm hmm gives me this big
beautiful grin
and i'm like
holy
like holy i didn't know i was
speechless i had a list of questions
and i looked at my list and i was like
um
um
can i get a photo with you
that was the only thing that came out of
my mouth anyway so he was very gracious
and he let me take a photo with him and
jimmy's like taking photos and anyway
we're just having a bit of fun i think i
may have asked him another question um
but that was it and then throughout the
night um he was like he'd be waving at
me it was so surreal and he would like
be trying to get my attention and i was
just like what is happening and as i was
leaving i'd had a few drinks and i was
feeling like a little bit confident and
i went up to him at the end of the night
and i was like hey it was really lovely
to meet you thank you so much and he
ended up giving me his business card and
he's like give me a call and i was like
oh my god
and
long story short
i
dated this guy who was
one of the most famous men in the world
at that time never in a million thousand
trillion years would i have ever thought
that this was possible and on our third
date he invited me over to his house for
dinner and this is where things really
kind of is this real or is this a dream
because when i walked in
he had decked out his house with candles
and
he had a glass of red wine waiting for
me and he was behind the kitchen counter
chopping a tomato this was beyond
anything that i could possibly imagine
that was probably the moment when my
brain actually shut down and was like i
can't accept this this is not possible
this is too good to be true like i
actually remember the moment where my
brain just cut out and was like this
can't be happening this is not this is
too too amazing and i actually could not
hold the reality
that i realized a bit later on in my
life that i had brought in based on the
joy and the feeling of just
bliss that this guy brought up in me as
i was watching him in television like i
didn't have any conscious awareness that
i was manifesting him into my life but i
can actually look back on this
experience and see how i did based on
all the things that i was doing which
was i was just well one i was completely
relaxed when i was watching him on
television i felt absolute intense joy
watching him there was no willing or
trying to meet him or anything like that
what's really amazing about this is that
my self-concept my story
caught up with my reality and i started
to very quickly undo
what i had created because i couldn't
hold this amazing reality my
self-concept wasn't at the level where i
could hold it where i was questioning
like what is this guy doing with me like
what how this isn't working there's no
way this could work like he's too good
like he's a movie star i'm nothing i was
the one bailing i was the one running
off down the coast because um in those
days you left messages like i didn't
have a mobile phone and so he would
leave messages on my phone but i would
just run away for the weekend because i
was just so overwhelmed by what was
happening so he was kind of wondering
where i was would not hold that amazing
reality that was happening to me also
really interesting about this is that my
mum came up recently and she brought a
box of treasures that i have not seen
since i got back from la
and i opened it and on top were the
journal entries that i wrote about my
time with this person
and reading them again was just
unbelievable i was reading the story of
my self-concept i could see how i was
writing my way out of this experience i
made the decision rather than see him
again i actually made the decision to go
back to australia i didn't want to go
back to australia
but
i could not hold that amazing reality
that was happening to me so i've
actually since revised that story and
thanks to this experience of this person
who asked this question and then seeing
nottingham on my uh netflix account has
enabled me to revise this like to for
this memory to come up for me to revise
it and to heal that assumption that it's
not possible to fall in love you know
create a life and family together
because you know there was a really
lovely connection with this person i
couldn't hold it at the time and this is
one of my favorite memories and to look
back and see where my assumptions about
life and love and myself caught up to me
and to my reality and then unraveled
this amazing experience that i had
created for myself and so i ended up
leaving like he wanted to go out again
and i actually said to him on the phone
i was like i'm going back to australia
and he's like really what you're going
back to australia and i was like yeah it
was like i ripped the rug out from under
myself because i simply couldn't hold
the that reality um but that's the
beautiful thing about this there's no
regret because that's where i was at the
time and the beautiful thing about these
teachings is it gives me the opportunity
to go back and revise that story
and rewrite and then shift into that new
memory because remember the brain
doesn't know the difference between what
it sees and what it imagines and what it
remembers you're the one that decides
that so you get to create these new
memories you get to go back and rewrite
the script as to how you would like it
to have been if there's something in
your reality that you kind of wish you
could have you have done differently you
can absolutely go back and do that
differently you have the power of your
imagination that is your creative
playroom that is where you do all of
your work remember reality is just the
reflection so whatever you're doing in
consciousness whether it's revising or
manifesting a new reality it's all
happening now so that state of
consciousness has to if it's rehearsed
and that becomes the new memory it has
to solidify and get reflected back so i
am incredibly grateful um to have had
this experience to be reminded of this
amazing experience that happened to me
to be able to revise it and then to
share it with you so that you know
what's possible like this is this is
possible for you this is possible for
anyone if you decide that this is
something that you want to experience in
your 3d
anything is possible anything you're
amazing you're creative you're powerful
it is absolutely possible to date your
celebrity crush if that's something that
you want to do however i would like to
highlight that with my experience there
was no willing it there was no trying to
make it happen there was no neediness i
didn't even like think for a second to
be honest that that was ever going to
happen to me
and it took a few years to really
understand how that did happen
but i can look back now and i go well i
100 set that up because of the joy
that i was feeling for so many years
like i felt joyful every time i looked
at this person's photograph for years
just brought up joy within me and then
when he was in front of me it was like
all of that joy culminated into this
moment in my reality where this person
standing in front of me beaming this
beautiful smile lights cameras like
shining down on us and i'm like standing
opposite this person just going holy
life
is magical
wow and we are all the stars and
creators of our reality having an
experience here in these physical bodies
and this 3d experience is malleable it
is absolutely changeable is entirely in
your hands and so i just wanted to share
this because this is possible as always
please remember that you are the amazing
creators of your reality you are the
superstar of your show you are the
producer the writer the director and the
actor in your movie what you assume to
be true will be so so assume the best
for you and assume the best for everyone
in your movie too and you will have an
amazing life and this is my wish my
vision and my prayer for you thank you
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