hello my babies welcome back to my
channel if you knew I'm Lee or Alexandra
welcome to the baby elephant community
on this channel we talk about the law of
attraction spirituality self-development
and all that good stuff in on Fridays
which is the new schedule I answer
questions that I received from all over
the interwebs so this question that I
received these couple of questions that
I receive today I got on my Instagram so
if you follow me on Instagram I often
ask for questions so if you ever have
questions that pressing questions that
you want a video response to I recommend
following me on Instagram it's just ugly
or Alexandra and I often will ask for
questions submissions you can ask there
and the reason I do that is because I
get so many questions that if there's
really no way to keep up with it but I
feel like if I chose a couple questions
every week they could apply to a
majority of us and it could help a lot
of us so today I chose two questions to
reply to one question was can I manifest
a person who's in a relationship to be
with me and the second question was how
can I stop fear from getting in the way
of manifesting both really solid
questions so let's begin with the
question of number one can I manifest
the person who's in a relationship to be
with me now I've talked about this in
several videos before I actually have a
video on how to attract the specific
person might have two videos on that so
my response to this is yes you can
manifest somebody who's in a
relationship currently to be with you
now should you do something like that
that is a very confident in solid no I
do not believe you should try to
manifest somebody else to be with you
because this is how it works you will be
most likely if you're powerful you'll be
successful and somehow manifesting and
maneuvering and manipulating the
situation so that this person ends up
with you
we have free will in this world and
thank God that we have free will because
without free will
people could manifest things on our
behalf when we don't want them to all
the time imagine if you were in love
with somebody if you were in a
relationship with somebody and you were
so happy with them but somebody else was
like manifesting for you to be with them
you'd end up with this person
automatically but because you have free
will it's really up to you to decide
what happens so what happens is through
manifestation you can get this person to
end up being in a relationship with you
somehow but their free will will make
sure that their emotions will most
likely stay with the other person that
they were in a relationship with before
you don't want to do that if you if
there is somebody that you want I would
honestly focus on loving yourself so
much that you manifest some somebody
perfect for you there are so many people
in this world there is no lack there is
no shortage you can manifest somebody
exactly like this person and if you have
to have this person if you feel like
this person is yours and meant to be for
you then what you need to do is be
respectful of their journey be
respectful of their relationship it
could be that they're meant to end up
with you but if you take them out of
their journey out of their path
selfishly because you want to be with
them now you are not allowing them to
have their own growth their own life
experiences you're not allowing them to
make their own decisions we all have
free will and we all have our own paths
so what I recommend is focusing on
yourself focusing on self love and being
in a high vibration in creating a life
that you love and when you do all of
that the perfect person is going to come
to you and if it is it that person
that's in a relationship is the perfect
person for you if they're meant for you
they'll end up with you because what's
yours will not pass you by but if you
see that this person is currently in a
relationship trying to get them out of
it and to be with you it's just not
natural it's not gonna end up good so
that might be an unpopular opinion and
sometimes people don't want to hear this
kind of stuff but that is true we have
free will for a reason and
very important to respect everybody
else's freewill also our emotions just
because we can't met it's not a love
potion we can't manifest somebody to
love us however we can love ourselves
and thereby attract to us somebody who
loves us as well it works I promise
second question for Friday QA we still
have a name for this show you guys
entered some really beautiful names I
have to choose one I just don't
nothing really clicked you know anyway
second question how can I stop fear from
getting in the way of manifesting well
this is what I have to say I would say
that first you have to realize that fear
comes from your ego which is your mind
but your primal mind your survival
instinct mind it's not the most rational
thinker your heart never feels fear your
heart is who you really are so the
source of fear is your ego that wants to
protect you it's not so smart it's not
too rational our ego stop us from
thriving from living and I'm not saying
kill your ego I don't agree with that
you don't have to kill your ego you have
to integrate with your ego which is what
lightwork does by the way I think in
description if soy you're saying right
now is that you're afraid that what you
want isn't going to come to you that
you're not going to be able to manifest
it that's just that's your ego that
doesn't come from your heart your heart
is unconditional love it's powerful it
knows of its own divinity its own power
its own creative powers imagine that
your ego is like that one friend that
doesn't really believe in themselves and
that plays it safe so they give you bad
advice they tell you maybe you should
choose the safer option maybe we're not
that great so we can't gain this where
we're not special enough to get this
that's the ego the heart however it goes
this is mine this is meant for me I'm
meant to manifest this if I desire it it
means it's meant for me so just because
your ego says to choose the safer option
doesn't mean that you should listen to
your heart manifest from your heart the
reason why most people don't manifest a
lot lives that they want the love that
they want the careers the whatever that
whatever it is that they want is because
they're afraid of failing of rejection
of not getting what it is that they want
so they never actually go for it
or they never open themselves up to the
ability to the possibility that they
could really have it all of that comes
from the ego and the ego means well it
really does it wants to protect you you
want to protect your pride but it
doesn't allow you to live life the way
you're supposed to your heart is
fearless it goes straight up to what it
wants and it clings it so listen to your
heart it decisions from your heart it's
being afraid of something and just a
cop-out for why you can't do it I think
that whatever you're afraid of you
should go after go after it and until it
no longer scares you there's a reason
that it scares you it means that it's
growth for you be a fearless warrior
that's what life is about that's when
life gets interesting so that's it for
Friday Q&A I hope you guys enjoyed that
if you have questions for me leave them
down below I will choose two more or a
few more for next week and I love you so
much thank you very much for watching
until my next video as always keep your
vibration is way way way up bye