you can improve any relationship
starting today starting right now and
I'm going to teach you how hello welcome
to my channel I'm Juliet Cleary I'm a
law of attraction coach and today I want
to teach you how you can change your
relationships and you might be surprised
to hear it is not about them it is only
about you make sure to subscribe and tap
the bell everyone in your life is a
mirror of your vibration of your
thoughts of your expectation now what
this means is you have power you have
power and positive influence over people
in your life and I don't mean control I
don't mean controlling people and
changing who they are I mean through
your power of alignment - your power of
the mind and emotion you can change what
you receive from other people I mean
think about it
Law of Attraction says whatever you
focus on grows bigger grows more so when
you focus on an aspect of someone that
you don't like guess what it's going to
get bigger it's going to happen more
often in your experience it's just the
way that it works and a lot of people
who believe in law of attraction and
deliberately use it often forget that it
applies to people too it applies to
relationships it applies to random
people that you come across they are all
reflections of your vibration and that
gives you incredible power because you
create your experiences you create your
reality it's all about you it starts and
ends with you
now it's time to take responsibility for
that
now I'm not speaking of
abusive violent relationships anything
like that that is something that you
should always leave straightaway and
then tend to your own vibration so you
don't attract anything else like that
haven't you noticed that when you're in
a rotten mood when you have a negative
focus there is just people all around
you ready to annoy you it's law of
attraction that's what it is now in your
close relationships there's not going to
be a person that is perfect in every way
but there are gonna be things that
bother you or issues or problems that
you may have or behaviors that you don't
like maybe even directed toward you but
you can change that the more you focus
on a person's positive aspects the more
they are going to give that to you now
this is something that I use in my life
every day even if there's someone that I
don't really mix well with I do my best
in my mind to think what are their best
aspects what do I like about this person
not only does that make me feel good
make me feel better in the moment and
more in alignment so I have a better
experience my whole day but it changes
what I receive for from them and I have
seen this work again and again and it
feels almost like magic but it's not it
is the way it works it's like when you
complain about things in your life you
receive more to complain about and it is
the same with people you may have
differences in your relationships that
maybe seem like they cannot be fixed but
you're looking at it from the wrong
perspective daren't focus on your
relationship when you're in a bad mood
focus on your relationship when you're
in a high-flying positive happy joyful
mood because then you're gonna see it
for what it truly is you're gonna see it
with clarity and you're gonna notice
that person
aspects you're gonna feel loved because
you want to love and it feels better
doesn't it feel better to love someone
than to hate doesn't it feel better to
appreciate someone than to criticize it
does not only does it make you feel good
but it changes your relationship with
that person now I have personally
witnessed incredible transformations in
relationships people close to me in my
life
terrible awful contrast and by focusing
not just on their positive aspects but
my own in my life I changed my
relationships I have seen people change
and if I told you a story about them
before the change and after you would a
hundred percent say that they were two
different people because sometimes it
feels like that
the more you focus on the problems in
your relationship you're going to kill
that relationship there is a saying that
if there are nine things in your
relationship with someone there are nine
things about this person that you
absolutely love that are fantastic and
are 100% working and there's just one
thing there is one thing that is not
working that is bothering you if you
focus on that one negative thing you can
destroy and will destroy the
relationship all those good things most
likely will change and be negatively
affected but it's the same thing the
other way around if someone has nine
aspects or you have nine different
issues in your relationship and there's
one thing there's one thing that is
working if you could focus if you could
be determined enough to focus on that
one thing
you would change those other nine things
you will change that relationship that
is how powerful you are you have
positive influence over the people in
your life when you are in alignment when
you are feeling good when you are
accessing the power of the universe you
are powerful and there is always always
something positive that you can focus on
in another person and I know that
sometimes it can be hard when you are
used to focusing on problems issues
negative aspects things that bother you
it's hard to shift it the other way but
you can and you will starting today
starting today I want you to start
appreciating your partner or another
person in a relationship that you have
appreciating them I want you to start
appreciating them I want you to start
looking for these persons positive
aspects instead of their negative ones I
want you to put your happiness first in
saying that I am going to look for your
positive aspects I'm going to look for
what makes me feel good and I'm going to
positively affect this relationship one
person one person in alignment is more
powerful and influential than millions
who aren't you have the power and other
people will come with you other people
will be uplifted by you if your
relationship isn't going really well
right now don't focus on it where it is
if you're gonna focus on it at all focus
on the best memories focus on the best
aspects focus on these smallest things
little things that you can find that a
positive and that make you feel good
you're going to notice change you are
going to notice change if you can stick
to doing this
so start today and transform your
relationships
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