How to know when to leave a bad marriage
The 5 Signs Your Relationship Is Over | Mel Robbins
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hey it's mel robbins and i wanted to
make this video because so many of you
are writing in for advice about romantic
relationships that make you question
yourself
so i want to teach you the five signs
that your relationship is over
recognizing these signs is critical even
though it might be hard for you to
accept it
now the fact that you're even watching
this video tells me that you're already
thinking that this relationship
isn't going to last and even if that
isn't necessarily true
those thoughts that you're having that
make you second-guess yourself
and start acting weird and clingy those
will
destroy a good relationship you
have a choice to make right now you
either address the five things i'm about
to talk about in this video
or face the truth and end the
relationship
yourself because it's over so what are
the five signs
sign number one you don't feel like
yourself
in this relationship you feel like
you're walking on eggshells
you don't know how to act when you're in
public or when you're around their
friends
you aren't sure if you should hold hands
you're uncomfortable talking about your
feelings because you don't know if
they're on the same page
all of these things mean you don't feel
comfortable being you
and any relationship where you have to
twist yourself
into somebody that you're not in order
to keep the peace it only starts a war
inside of you
and those kind of relationships they
always blow up
the second side you're constantly
questioning
how you should communicate if you're
nervous about sending a text
asking if they want to hang out or do
you obsess over whether they opened your
snap but they haven't responded or
how long it's been since they texted you
back
do they watch your instagram story but
not respond to your text messages
are you compulsively checking social
media to try to get the clues you need
that it's okay to reach out any
relationship where you spend more time
questioning rather than talking about
communication
is a relationship that's broken sign
number three
you think about where the relationship
stands all the time
so do you constantly think about
questions like where is this going are
we exclusive
are we committed can i introduce you to
my family and take you to a work event
how should i introduce you what are you
thinking what do you say about me
not knowing where you stand means this
relationship
doesn't stand a chance sign number four
you're starting to get annoyed you're
now the one
opening snaps and not responding you're
saying you're too busy to hang out in
order to
send a message you're hesitant to commit
to future plans because you don't know
the future of this relationship
you snap at them more than usual all
those cute little things that used to
make you laugh they're really annoying
and
here's the kiss of death if their name
pops up on your phone
or they walk through the door at the end
of the day and you feel dread
and not excitement that's a sign
that you're over this person and the
fifth and final sign
you're questioning whether or not you
have the same values
if you're starting to feel like you're
losing yourself
for example maybe you're drinking more
than you'd like you're spending less
time with your friends you're skipping
the gym you're only doing
things for example like listening to
certain types of music
because it interests them this is a
major problem
if there isn't a balance between the two
of you you will
always feel like a less important part
of the relationship
because you are now here's a quick test
to see if you're losing yourself
just go out alone tonight with your
friends and if it feels like a relief
because you can finally act like
yourself that's a sign that this
is not a relationship for you i bet what
you're doing
is you're confusing chemistry for
compatibility
you see chemistry is like a match that
gets lit
but eventually it burns out
compatibility
means you and your partner bring out the
best in you which is why
it goes the distance so let me recap the
five signs
you don't feel like yourself you're
constantly questioning how to
communicate
you think about where the relationship
stands all the time
you're starting to get annoyed and
you're questioning whether or not you
have the same
values this is the wake-up call you
needed
as lizzo likes to say truth hurts
but clearly you need to hear it i hope
this video made it easy for you to
recognize when someone is no longer
right for you
now it's on you to accept it to move on
and
the next time you're about to get into a
relationship
remember you deserve someone who brings
out the best in you
hey it's mel thank you so much for
watching this video if you haven't
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