my entitled ex-wife tries to lie and
ruin my life after she's caught having
an affair with another man she even went
as far as calling the police claiming
that I was a danger to her life but
after having video footage proving her
wrong I eventually took her to divorce
court and not only got full custody of
our kids but also prevented her from
getting anything from me in return and
I've never been more happy to have my
life back here's what happened so for
those of you who remember me I'm the guy
whose wife made our kids release a wild
bunny in the middle of our yard after I
advised her to have the kids take it to
the bushes just to try and release it
safely and well as you could imagine a
hawk took the bunny right in front of
both of our children and they freaked
out on their mother they then came
running back in tears our kids then
started calling their mother the bunny
destroyer and that name seems apt right
about now and other people called her
that as well after her Affair got out
I'm now speaking as a free man after
finishing up divorce a couple of months
ago so buck buckle up this is a long one
so I did show my wife my original post
about the bunny and she was very angry
with me so much so that it caused a bad
fight and after it I got the silent
treatment for another week I tried to
make my kids stop mistreating their
mother after the bunny incident even
with being punished by small groundings
and timeouts but the bunny Destroyer
nickname just kept coming back every
time our kids got angry with their
mother my wife let up her cold shoulder
routine after a couple of weeks and
eventually conceded that she should have
listened to me about the bunny and
should have taken it to the bushes like
I said she claimed that she felt that
she needed to defend herself because she
didn't want to be wrong well I accepted
that apology and apologized myself for
even making that Post online in the
first place I wanted us to go to
marriage counseling but she refused she
acted like there was nothing wrong with
our marriage and I decided to not push
the issue any further since things were
seemingly getting along a lot better but
after a few weeks my oldest came to me
saying that she won wanted to tell me
something there was another reason why
she was so mad at her mother and it was
more than just the bunny incident but
she was scared to tell me I comforted
her and I told her that she could tell
me anything well what she said shocked
me and changed everything in an instant
she said that for months mama had been
bringing a man over some Saturdays I was
at work and had referred to him as her
special friend she even got her kids to
keep quiet about it by various means of
bribery but my eldest realized that
something was very wrong with it and
spent some time working up the courage
to tell me kids know things and they
pick up on stuff very quickly and I
really dislike it when people dismiss
those facts I had noticed that my wife
is acting a bit different lately she had
been more short with everyone especially
the kids I tried talking to her about it
when I showed her my first post and she
just went off on me about any little
things she could think of she insulted
my appearance my character my habits she
even insulted my side of the family she
even brought up that I used to smoke
milk even though I quit over 10 years
ago then she resorted to locking me out
of the bedroom and crying so loud that
everybody in the house could hear it so
my eldest came to me and I ended up
putting two and two together she was
cheating and her behavior was very
similar to the mood swings that she had
while pregnant with both of our children
and I say similar because it was even
worse from what I've gathered searching
online and what friends and even a
counselor have told me my wife was both
very moody from hormones and projecting
because of her infidelity I can't claim
to be an expert in Psychology but it
does seem to make sense I wanted this
all to be a misunderstanding but I
quickly ordered and set up a few hidden
cameras without anyone knowing I had
them delivered to my work just so no one
at home would see them then I set them
up on a day with my wife out to have a
girls night with her friends it was very
easy to hook them up and connect them to
the Wi-Fi in just a few short hours I
could monitor every part of the house
from my home PC as well as my laptop and
workpiece see at first I was worried
that I might have been going overboard I
thought if it turned out I was wrong
then I could remove the cameras and no
one would ever know but no my worst
fears were confirmed as I got plenty of
evidence in just the first week the man
my wife had taken as her Affair partner
as a former colleague of hers I remember
him quite well as they both seemed close
with my wife whenever I met him at
various functions my wife quit her job
years ago to be a full-time Mom after
getting pregnant with her first it was a
mutual decision for both of us at the
time my wife stayed connected with her
former co-workers as they were her best
friends but not anymore because what I'm
about to tell you has pretty much made
her hated by everyone firstly her Affair
partner is younger than my wife by about
a decade she mentored him at her former
job to fill a position when she laughed
and the two of them stayed very close
and I mean very close my wife and I are
both over the age of 40 but you would
not know it from looking at her she is
positively stunning she got mistaken for
someone in their 20s quite a lot and I
guess she capitalized on that I ended up
confiding to my sister about what was
going on and showed her the footage from
The Nanny camps she told me she
suspected this for a while and said that
she'd seen my wife once at a local bar
getting a little bit too close with a
man that wasn't me but they never kissed
or anything like that while she was
watching just a lot of touching on the
shoulders and lower back and since she
wasn't sure she didn't tell me sooner I
ended up offering a GPS tracker as well
and after I got it working I hid it in
the trunk of my wife's car my sister and
her husband agreed to help me and follow
the tracker on my wife's neck supposed
night out with her friends she went to a
completely different place 20 miles
further away than where she usually goes
and from there she would meet up with
the affair partner now my sister and my
brother-in-law observe them for some
time from their car they noticed that
the affair partner kept rubbing her
belly while they were talking and they
recorded video of this too when I saw
the footage I knew she had to be
pregnant with a baby since she was so
moody at home my sister and
brother-in-law had to calm me down
because I turned into a complete mess I
wanted to self-medicate with alcohol but
my sister very correctly told me that
drinking was the worst thing I could do
at a moment like this later I decided to
take a leave from work but told my wife
I was actually going to be on a business
trip and when she heard this news she
literally could not have been more
excited about it and didn't even try
very hard to hide her Glee that I would
be leaving for a while I mean who is
this woman she is certainly not the one
I married almost 20 years ago right did
someone who looks exactly like her just
take her place one day I mean did I even
know her she felt like an alien to me
the more I thought about it the less it
made sense to me so my conclusion was
that trying to make sense of anything
would it do me any good I had cameras
all over that house and my sister and
brother-in-law agreed to take my kids
for a few days because they love
visiting Auntie and Uncle in the city
this gave my wife the exact opening that
she wanted she called her a fair partner
only a few hours after I left and he
showed up that evening to spend the
night I won't go into any details about
what they did around the house you can
fill in those details yourself but on
top of all that they were joking about
me continuously they openly talked about
their baby and how they needed to figure
out what to do before her belly starts
to show as she was already over three
months Along by them and there was no
way it could be passed off as mine
especially since the affair partner is a
different race than me so it would be
pretty easy to tell that the baby
wouldn't be mine from birth my wife
brushed her Affair partner's concerns
aside and said that they had months to
figure it out then she shamelessly
admitted that this wasn't even her first
Affair as she had spent some quality
time with another man when she was 29
years old she told her Affair partner
that she was sick of having to act like
the good housewife and how she was tired
of being around a boring man like myself
that made her feel old and if it wasn't
for me being so financially stable she
would have left me a long time ago even
her Affair partner asked her about what
her plan was for her kids and her exact
words were to say that I can have them
she didn't even want to be around our
kids anymore because she thought that
they liked me better and she would soon
be having her own do-over baby again
anyways I very nearly threw the laptop
on the floor in the motel room because I
was so disgusted but I contained myself
drank a little bit and got some dinner
at a diner then I watched a movie just
to try and get my mind straight after
that I spent half the night just laying
there in bed thinking till I finally
fell asleep I thought I knew my wife so
well I loved her and would have given
her all that I had to give but in the
end some people are just evil and you
can never really know who they are until
they reveal their true self I made up my
mind right then and there to destroy her
in divorce I'm normally a very calm and
collected man but get me angry enough
and I can become your worst nightmare I
went to see a law firm for divorce
lawyers the very next day and asked for
the meanest lawyer that they had I live
in an at fault state so my wife was in
serious trouble the moment I had her
affair on camera the lawyer was
initially apprehensive that I wanted to
hire him so quickly until I explained my
situation in more detail and I even
showed him some of the video footage and
that's when he got a devilish grin on
his face and we shook hands he said that
he would start right away because this
was the kind of case divorce lawyers
love to dig their teeth into I had my
wife served a few weeks later on a day I
was working from home and the kids were
thankfully in school the eldest is in
kindergarten and the youngest is in
preschool the papers were delivered
right to my wife's hand by the local
sheriff the cameras caught it all she
looked scared while she opened the
envelope read the contents and then lost
her mind she came running into my office
to scream at me but I remained cool and
collected the entire time I was already
completely mentally checked out of our
marriage my wife wanted to argue you but
I just told her I'd made up my mind I
wanted her out of my house I'm the only
one who's ever paid the mortgage she
screamed at me that I can't do this to
her and then she actually threatened to
tell people that I was hurting her if I
took her to court and she would get me
fired from my job to boot I told her to
go right ahead and make up any lie that
she wants it won't help her I mean it's
not like she wasn't planning on screwing
me over since she's pregnant with her
Affair partner's baby anyways when I
said that she went wide-eyed and asked
me how much I knew I just said that I
knew enough and I told her once again
that I wanted her to leave she refused
and said it was just as much her house
as it was mine then she locked herself
in the bedroom I saw on the bedroom
cameras that she was having a meltdown
and then pulling her phone out and
calling the police she was acting like
she was in complete panic but there was
a huge smile on her face while she was
doing it she was quite the actress after
all I would have believed this
performance over the phone in a
heartbeat if I didn't already know that
she was a liar I waited for the police
with a front door wide open and told
them to come in when they arrived they
were initially hot blooded and ready for
a showdown but the house was clean there
was no sign of any sort of fight my wife
came running out of the bedroom and
grabbed the vest of the officer while
crying and saying that I was a maniac I
then asked one of the other officers to
let me show them evidence of what is
really going on and he agreed and when I
said this this really startled my wife
as she was not aware that I had recorded
her I showed the officer the footage
from the camera on my laptop showing
that my wife was saying that she'd make
up all this stuff just to try and ruin
my life then I showed the footage from
the living room after she ran out of my
office and into the master bedroom down
the hall and then I showed the footage
from the camera in the bedroom of her
calling the police and just straight up
lying I had recorded it all and from
multiple angles at that and even though
she claimed to the police that I had
supposedly hit her there was not only no
marks on her but the cameras all around
the house showed a completely different
story then I handed the police a thumb
drive and said it had all the video
footage they needed of her calling them
under false pretenses my wife even in
the face of all of this evidence stuck
to her lie saying that I was a horrible
person and even tried to say the
recordings were illegal and therefore
inadmissible but I pointed out that they
are legal because they were security
cameras inside of my own home and not
recorded in public my wife looked at the
police officer and told them to please
do something to which they absolutely
did because she was the one put in
handcuffs and she started bawling like a
child I could only sit there shaking my
head this was once the woman I'd love so
much for so many years I thought she was
a wonderful intelligent and endearing
person but I couldn't have been more
wrong as the police took her away she
screamed that they couldn't do this to
her but didn't fight back much otherwise
resisting arrest would have been added
to her charges I then shut down all of
her credit cards that were in my name
and stopped any future payments into the
joint bank account so she had to use
entirely her own money to bail herself
out of jail she had saved plenty of
money all those years that she was still
working while the mortgage was only on
me so she was literally anything but
broke she came back for her car which I
had taken the liberty of packing a few
of her suitcases full of her clothes as
well as some other things and left the
key on the seat so she wasn't even able
to come back into the house my wife's
parents did come to speak to me a day
after she bailed herself out of jail
initially they only had the backstories
of what she told them which was
basically the same thing she tried to
tell the police her father especially
was ready to attack me he is old but
he's also very big and very strong but
when I asked him if he knew anything
about my wife's Affair or her pregnancy
he looked very surprised and thankfully
gave me the chance to explain myself so
I pulled out the laptop again and I
showed my in-laws what I had recorded
and when they found out the truth they
were disgusted and said that they
couldn't believe this person was their
daughter they apologized to me and said
that they would keep in touch to help
out with my kids then they called my
wife on speakerphone right in front of
me and confronted her about all of her
lies she tried to double down until they
said that they were with me and that
they had seen the recordings they said
that they knew everything and they
wanted her out of her house immediately
she tried to backpedal but my in-laws
said that they did not raise their
daughter to act this way and they were
astonished that she would try to frame
her own husband and she was no longer
their daughter they disowned her over
the phone right then and there and then
hung up before my wife could say
anything else she tried calling back but
they ignored her every attempt and when
they got home Not only was she gone but
she had destroyed several things around
the house which my mother-in-law was in
tears about now I still consider my ex's
parents my in-laws because they still
would drop in from time to time just to
see their grandchildren but my ex on the
other hand is effectively non-existent
to us my wife later came back back with
her Affair partner in tow to pack her
things the affair partner wouldn't even
come into the house and my wife refused
to speak a word to me all while
Gathering her remaining belongings she
knew there were cameras everywhere and
she would only dig herself a bigger
grave if she tried anything else I
wasn't alone either as my sister and
brother-in-law were there to keep an eye
on her my brother-in-law made sure to
keep his eye on the affair partner from
the window my wife was still packing
when the kids got home and she made no
attempt to speak to them either not even
what our youngest was crying for her
before leaving she did take a few of the
photos that we had of each other from
our wedding off the wall and threw them
on the floor just to break them I think
she was expecting a reaction out of me
because of the way she looked at me
while doing it but since I didn't say
anything she just took the last of her
bags and walked out the door after she
was gone I had to call my elderly mother
to come stay with me for a while because
I couldn't take care of the kids alone I
couldn't take a lot of time off of work
and I didn't have a lot of daycare on
options either and you know what I also
ordered DNA tests for my kids because
even though I was sure that they were
mine several people told me that just in
case I had to know and thankfully yes
both of my children are mine about a
week later my wife showed up at my door
saying that she would agree to a clean
divorce if I did as well meaning that
she would have gotten half of everything
if I had agreed but I straight up said
no to her face there was some fighting
back and forth and she more or less
admitted to finding out that the law in
this state was definitely not on her
side after all we met we got engaged and
got married and lived our whole lives in
this state there was no way she could
get out of taking a major loss unless I
agreed to settle which I absolutely did
not then I said that she betrayed me our
kids her parents and practically
Everyone by having this affair I then
slammed the door in her face she quietly
left and I didn't see her again until
Court a few months later in divorce
court my wife was visibly quite pregnant
by then and she had gotten a lawyer as
well the affair partner was nowhere to
be seen I expected her to try and lie to
the judge what she started to do a few
times but I had enough video evidence to
refute any of her lies so she really
didn't have any kind of chance to win
this so instead she just kind of dragged
out the divorce by simply refusing to
cooperate and making various demands she
wanted most of my savings for starters
and she wanted a long list of other
things that I own and she wanted me to
buy out of her half of the house even
though she never paid into it on my end
I was pushing for full custody of the
kids and to get her name off of the deed
of my house after all I had the video
evidence to back up how she said that
she didn't even care about our children
anymore and how she would make up all
these lies just to hurt my reputation my
wife tried to stall and repeatedly would
change her demands but the judge didn't
let her keep dragging things out this
being an at fault state meant that she
was entitled to very little since she
was the one who commit to the affair and
her attempting to frame me only made her
case even worse in the end she lost all
custody of our kids and walked away with
nothing more than her belongings and
that honestly could be considered a fair
Financial settlement considering the
circumstances as well as the car I'd
previously bought for her the title
wasn't my name but I signed it over
without any care in the world as part of
the settlement she made no attempts to
even speak to our kids during the entire
divorce anyways so I ended up getting
full custody the house is entirely mine
now and I'm completely free of this
crazy woman my now ex-wife did try to
keep up with her lies about me to others
before and during the divorce but my
sister spread word around of my wife's
infidelity and soon all mutual friends
Cut Her Off when they realized who was
telling the truth she and her Affair
partner left town together after the
divorce ended I heard that the affair
partner wasn't fired but he was
transferred where he got transferred to
who knows but I do know that my ex had
to go with him the they could have
transferred him and my ex to freeze and
Greenland for all I care I'm just happy
that they've both laughed my ex should
have had her do over baby by now and I
hope it was all worth it to her now this
is not what I expected to be posting
online after just talking about my wife
releasing a bunny where a hawk could get
it but many of the comments I previously
got about the way that my wife was
acting made me realize that I should
have been paying attention to the red
flags a long time ago I guess I just
kept Rose tinted glasses on for the
entirety of our marriage but it's all
over now and I'm so thankful that I have
my life to live what an unbelievable
situation this lady went around behind
her husband's back and did stuff that
was absolutely inexcusable she didn't
care about her kids she just wanted to
have a do-over baby she's been cheating
on this guy for years and she actively
tried to lie and say that he was hurting
her as well as doing all these other
horrible things just to try and ruin his
life like that is honestly crazy to me
this guy seriously deserves so much
better and this and titled Karen of a
wife got exactly what she deserved she
lost everything she didn't get a scent
from this guy except for maybe the car
and he was able to move on with his life
with his kids Those kids deserve so much
better than that horrible mother I mean
she said it best she literally did not
care about this guy or his kids in the
slightest and that was some smart
thinking by the original poster they got
cameras they set it up in their house
and they got all the evidence they would
ever need without those cameras his case
would have been absolutely thrown away
he would have had no proof of what was
happening and his wife very easily could
have gotten him in trouble for something
that he wasn't doing so I really hope
the original poster is happy with the
life they finally earned they got their
cheating wife away from their children
and he moved on and now hopefully has a
good life and hopefully for the sake of
him and his kids his life improved
substantially after having to endure his
ex-wife's lies as well as her blatant
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