okay guys welcome back to the lovely
diary and this is me explaining to you
all what I did to start the process of
putting my kids down on child support
for my son he was already on child
support for my daughter but it was not
through the state it was just through
the court so there was no record of the
child support in child support because
it just went through the stick at me I'm
sorry I went through them chords and he
was paying his child support as he
pleased through my daughter's bank
account now I can help you all I mean
not help you all because I'm not a
lawyer but I can tell you on my story so
that you can know what I did to even
just open up a bank account for my child
okay and um one thing that was like the
biggest I don't know stressor that would
have caused me to change my mind was a
paternity test right all tests make us
nervous
and what's the biggest test for a woman
finding out if the guy that you think is
the kid's father is not the father
so I had to fill out the application one
and I had to know things like his
birthday his social addresses of his
family his friends any information that
I could have given them to help them
serve him with these papers to start
paying child support and this you guys
is just a little clip of the paternity
affidavit and this is a form that allows
the state to test you if need be and
test the child this test was very
demeaning they took pictures of us they
took pictures of me my child they
swapped my mouth they swapped the child
and it was an experience
that really made me feel about this big
because you know we say we know who our
kids dads are right and so just the idea
of or they you know the idea that he
could potentially not be the dad um it
can make you want to turn away and walk
away because you don't really want to
find that truth out but I encourage you
all to if you know then you know if you
don't know be upfront about it say it I
don't know we'll find out and that's
okay because we're all human right now
after this was when it started the
timeline okay I'm gonna give you all
that information about the timeline and
how long this process took so just stay
tuned okay I don't want to overwhelm you
all with information so quick okay but I
do want to keep you all engaged and let
you know that it is coming the
information is coming I have it and I'm
going to give it to you one this is me
letting you walk in this is my diary my
intimacy with you all okay and so I want
you guys to know that everything that
I've done you're going to know okay so
thanks for being here thanks for tuning
in and I want you guys to stay tuned
because my next video is going to give
you all how long this process took and
how long it is taking okay so stay tuned
guys I'll see you guys in a little bit
I'm going to have some more documents
for you all to take a look at if you
have any questions leave it in the
comments and yeah thanks for tuning in
see you awesome welcome Seth I love me
diary