How to feel better after a mutual breakup
To Anyone Going Through A Breakup
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why is it that even when you're in a
happy relationship you can always feel
the pain of a past breakup
i like to think that is the doing of
love
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this is for anyone going through a
breakup who needs to add up all those
wandering thoughts in their head
so that they can finally start to make
sense again when someone we truly love
leaves
we are left feeling like we can't live
without them it feels like they took our
whole life
with them your favorite coffee loses
flavor the scenic walks we used to take
make us feel lost our bed feels cold our
food tastes bland our clothes don't fit
and our heads feel disconnected from our
body if i just described how you are
feeling then that proves that you are
not alone in this situation
even if it was just one thing but to
some that would upset you you don't want
someone to be like you because for once
in your life you're able to feel
something
even if it's pain and you don't want
anyone to come into your life and help
you or listen to you or understand you
because
you just lost that so even if all these
thoughts are painful
you're able to feel you're processing
this breakup as the worst thing that
could have ever happened but if you're
able to feel lately
actually feel and feel who you are
then maybe it was the best thing to
happen someone leaving your life always
sucks in the moment but down the line it
all starts to make sense i'm not here to
tell you that time heals all wounds
because you already know that but i'm
here to tell you that you have the
strength to endure this time alone
and be strong for you
again to find yourself so why does this
hurt one you lost someone you love two
you let go of someone you love three you
feel nothing now the obvious patterns
are gonna happen one you're gonna feel
it heavily two you will be angry three
you will want to work on yourself a lot
four you're probably gonna go to the gym
five you will miss them so if we know
all this and that breakups are so common
and these feelings are so common then
why does it still hurt every single
person is different and every
relationship is different so allow me to
share my personal experience breakups
hurt so much
because you envisioned your entire life
with someone else to the point where you
have lost who you are without them and
this is usually why couples tend to
distance themselves because one partner
loses who they are and they become
dependent on the other and once that
weight becomes too heavy someone has to
break so you might think that you hate
this person for breaking your heart but
a lot of the times it comes down to the
feeling of letting yourself down so now
that you just told your heart into
shreds allow me to try and fix it i only
got one step for you one
you just keep swimming enough of it
it's tough
this is how it is but it's not the end
of the world if you wanted some cookie
cutter advice and you would have went to
your mom but you came to the internet
and the internet is a little bit like
life it doesn't care about you it just
wants your money kind of like a bad
relationship
i'm kind of kidding about life it
doesn't necessarily just want your money
but i'm serious about the fact that you
just need to keep moving forward i think
what helps is literally knowing the pain
of the fact that your ex is doing the
same the relationship has ended
it's over
they're moving on it's time to learn who
you are again and be okay with the fact
that they will be doing the same and i
have to say congratulations because
you've made it this far into a video
about a topic that you feel broken about
and to that
you must know that you're strong enough
to handle any stay you stay beautiful
and i'll see you when you go through
your next breakup
you
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