How to feel better after a breakup for guys
How To Deal With A Breakup | Do's & Don'ts
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so you were in love with a girl you
thought could be the one your family
loved her you have a history together
and you would have done anything for and
then she left you completely out of the
blue or maybe it was another balloon
there were signs for a while did you
chose to ignore but whatever you weren't
paying attention to the signs because he
believed in the love you shared
soulmates true love is forever and now
here you are single clueless and you
have no idea if you'll ever find anyone
again or if you're going to adapt
quickly to your new life as an in cell
this can be one of the most painful
times in anyone's life I know it doesn't
feel like it if handled properly this
could be your best opportunity to become
someone you've always wanted to be you
have a ton of leverage right now so to
start here's what you could do feel
sorry for yourself feel bad think and
stew over ways that you could get her
back think that you won't ever get
someone as good as this girl so you need
to get her back at all costs then you
get more needy send her a heartfelt
message try to prove to her that you
would do anything so this is what you
could do if you're living in the past if
you're destroyed and broken trust me
I know it feels like this is the way to
go because you have to get her back but
here's how we can take this incredibly
painful event and turn it into a
positive maybe the most positive point
in your life if you do this you can
transform this moment of pain and
despair and use it as a way to crawl it
a sadness and become the champion you
were born to be let's break this
transition period into three stages
until --'tis activities and extra
curricular lease far mentalities we need
to accept that we are now single
acceptance is very important we're gonna
be strong from now on Oh or or I guess
you can cry as well that's fine too
right now that that's over this girl
left you and she's never going to come
back even if you do get her back she
left you for a reason and if this reason
is still there she's gonna leave again
so she's dead to you now she has to be
for your own good feel the pain the
sadness the despair these emotions are
powerful it sucks I know don't try to
block it out but don't let it engulf you
either and absolutely do not
continuously numb your feelings
this will just prolong all those
negative feelings next we need to
embrace that we're gonna be single for
the next six months to a year maybe even
longer we're gonna make a commitment to
work on ourselves for right now
it's time to be selfish your mindset
from now on is that you're on a path of
self-discovery when you and your
girlfriend broke up you two were a whole
now
you're not whole anymore but you're
gonna decide that you're gonna realize
how to make yourself whole once again
but without being dependent on someone
else a common thought is to think that
you won't find someone like your
girlfriend and as bad as it sounds
she's not that special there's wonderful
girls everywhere you just got to sift
through a lot of trash to find them same
for girls they have to deal with a lot
of trash boys to find the diamond in the
rough maybe right now you're trash but
you're gonna work on you so you're that
diamond we're looking for a good girl
as well don't get drugged down thinking
there's a scarcity of good women there's
tons of great women all over the place
it just depends on if you're the person
they want to meet and if you put
yourself in a position to meet them
having scarcity about this is one of the
most repelling vibes you can put off so
just brainwash yourself into abundance
if you need to for now activities a
relationship takes time and now that
it's over you have some extra time use
this time to discover yourself go try
new hobbies learn a new skill get better
at your job start meditating spend time
with your old friends and go out and
make new ones be selfish and do what you
feel like doing start archery or
horseback riding or gambling whatever it
is you've always wanted to do now is the
time to try it
now's the time to get in touch with
health wealth and relationships get in
shape if you're not get skills that will
bring you more cash
one thing I'll touch on again is connect
with your friends your friends are your
lifeline they'll help you bounce back
from the darkest corners a supportive
friend group will listen to your
problems and worries and take you up for
activities to get your mind off them
extra curricular ease by
extracurriculars I mean to say seeing
other women
the modern dating scene right now is an
absolute mess
if you've been out of the dating game
for a while it's a lot to get caught up
on this tinder hinge and Bumble to act
as dating apps there's language exchange
apps that act as dating apps there's
niche video games hobby websites that
also seem to only be around to act as
dating apps for people with your exact
interests to navigate this world it's
gonna take plenty of practice
do not get hung up on making one day
workout remember we're in abundance now
trust that this date doesn't work out
you're gonna have access to another date
rather quickly so go on dates figure out
what you like and don't like in a
partner what are their qualities take
people to new hobbies and learn how to
express yourself in a way that is fun
riveting and authentic don't try to mold
yourself to someone else but learn how
to express yourself in a way that put
your best foot forward this video is a
highlight what to do when a girl breaks
up with you it's tough it hurts but this
is one of the highest leverage times to
change your life permanently for the
better good luck please share this video
with anyone you know who's going through
a breakup let me know in the comments
how you deal with a breakup
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