hi there welcome back today I am going
to be sharing with you things that
confident women do and things that
confident women don't do now before we
get started let me just say that we all
have areas where we are not living to
our highest potential this video is not
about placing judgment on yourself or
judgment on others there could be things
that I share today that may not resonate
with you you may think will I do that or
I'm guilty of that but I am fully
confident in my decision to do so
again be careful with our judgement I'm
really here just to provide some
confidence boosters so to speak that you
can take a look at to see how are you
showing up how are you projecting
yourself energetically to this world is
it serving you is it not serving you and
maybe you will take something from
today's video if you don't that is
perfectly fine stay tuned till the end
of this video because I will be sharing
with you an assessment you can take if
you would like to see what is serving
you and what is not serving you in the
areas of confidence that I share with
you today with that 10 confidence
boosters for women or things for you to
consider number 1 confident women do not
need to wear flashy brands big names and
logos rarely signify an elevated taste
level or style but instead it's more
about the status you are trying to
display a confident and classy woman
does not need to put anything on display
as she has enough self assurance to
shine without all the bling and noise
confidence-booster number 2 confident
women know how to dress appropriately
for an occasion a confident woman is not
afraid to wear what she wants and does
not feel a need to conform to what
others are wearing you will not
generally see a confident woman
following all the latest influence
SURS or trends she knows what flatters
her body in what colors suit her best a
confident woman knows how to dress
appropriately for any occasion
even if it does not depict her style
taste for example she may prefer a
laid-back casual style while there is
nothing wrong with comfortable and
casual the confident woman knows that if
she were going to a more formal function
let's say a wedding funeral job
interview or any professional setting
she would dress appropriately for those
occasions in do it with class and grace
number 3 confident women don't do things
purely to make themselves look
successful buying an expensive car or
luxury handbag that they really can't
afford may initially make one look
successful but if nothing else matches
up people will catch on confident women
do not need things to define them a
confident woman that can back her luxury
purchases is never showy but rather
tends to be humble and discreet about
her affluent lifestyle something to
consider or confidence-booster number
four confident women do not take
advertising or social media too
seriously
confident women know that Instagram is a
creative and people and influencers work
hard to get the perfect picture they
know that when they see picture-perfect
homes kozhedub couple's exotic vacations
and everything else it doesn't
necessarily mean more than a creative
post confident women don't need to prove
their point on Facebook by debating
their beliefs with others she respects
that she has thoughts and feelings based
off her own experiences and others do as
well confident women don't need constant
and
and validation from others confident
women will base their belief off their
own research and that they will keep it
to themselves
number five confident women never
conform or yield to peer pressure
confident women know what's good for
them and what isn't they're not afraid
to speak up if someone wants to sell
them something or wants them to do
something that does not serve them or
their best interest say no comes easy
for the confident lady competent women
exhibit a high level of emotional
intelligence they are able to make an
executive decision quickly and therefore
rarely lived with regret
booster number six in an area that some
of us do need to see if we identify with
confident women are not people pleasers
and establish boundaries well with
others and stay tuned many of you have
requested for me to do a video talking
about boundaries this would be
piggybacking off of my video that I did
last month where I talked about being a
high caliber person and living an
optimal life I will have that video
linked in the drop down box as well as
many more that complement today's video
I will also have the high caliber video
right up here in the corner where you
can click on to view after this video
while there is nothing inheritable wrong
with helping others and wanting to make
other people happy confident women know
there is a time and place for that
people pleasers are often easy targets
to be taken advantage of now bear in
mind we can never be taken advantage of
unless we are saying yes to it this goes
back to the people-pleasing and we will
expand more in the boundaries video all
right moving on still on to number six
confident women typically balance their
own needs with other people's needs
so it's respectful dignified and not
dependent on one another
confident women will
never say yes to narcissism gas lighting
or codependency in relationships they
love and respect themselves too much for
any type of emotional abuse number seven
confident women never socially overshare
or hide behind the screen of anonymity
you will rarely see confident women post
anything too personal about their life
or relationships they manage their
personal lives without the need for
other people's acknowledgement
validation guidance and encouragement in
other words they do not need to put it
all out there confident women recognize
that online interactions have the
potential to dehumanize communication
they know that it's much easier to
humiliate someone under the veil of
anonymity by saying negative and hurtful
things about them when it's just a
remote transaction and you can hide
behind an alias that is not tied to your
existence confident women know that you
are indeed connected to anything you say
therefore the competent woman wouldn't
say it in the first place
bear in mind I'm not saying there is
anything wrong with posting or
commenting on social media YouTube or
whatever it is if you are struggling
with this one go back and watch it or
read the tips if you do click on the
link to get the notes it just depends on
how you are utilizing it when you take
the self-assessment there will be some
questions on there that will help you to
identify if you are showing up in
projecting yourself the way that you
would like to when it comes to
commenting and posting on social media
number eight confident women are not
afraid to ask for help a confident woman
is not afraid to ask for help when
needed she does not see this as a sign
of weakness a confident woman knows that
to accomplish something or build on
something she may have to enlist the
help of others it
confident woman is okay with not being
knowledgeable on everything and not
being good at everything the confident
woman is always eager to learn she sees
herself as a student who is creating
mastery to live an extraordinary life
and this one really goes back to being a
high caliber person and living optimally
it is perfectly fine that we are not
great at everything but there are people
that have a lot of insecurity in this
area and it holds them back it limits
them from showing up how they would like
to it also limits them from taking risk
and maybe going after a goal that they
see in their trajectory this is so
important to pay attention to and see
how does this apply to me am i showing
up here as a confident person or do I
have some insecurities that I need to
work around confidence booster number
nine confident women do not assume the
world around them is out to get them
confident women do not believe the world
or the people in it are trying to
ridicule or make them smile when other
people say things or do things that hurt
her feelings
she refrains from assuming malicious
intent
again confident women have a high level
of emotional intelligence and understand
that although others may show up
differently in conversation attitude and
actions it has nothing to do with her
stay tuned when I launch my level up
your life online mastery course I will
have a whole entire module just on
emotional intelligence I do a lot of
emotional intelligence coaching it is a
great area that is suitable and will
serve one well if they can master this
in their life the result will be that
you will show up in a more anabolic way
and project yourself more energetically
number ten confident women never treat
people around them poorly although she
may be in a more powerful position
than another person a confident woman
would never treat another human being
like they were any less than or below
her confident women know that treating
others poorly to make themselves feel
better is a sure sign of insecurity well
there you have it things that the
confident woman does and things that she
does not do 10 confidence boosters or
just things for you to consider and see
how you are showing up everything always
boils down to if something is serving
you or not if you do choose to take the
assessment
there will be no right or wrong answers
this is really just for you to bring
awareness to how you are projecting
yourself in how you feel in certain
situations you always have the choice to
show up however you would like in your
own life in your own journey the choice
is always yours if you want to show up
with confidence I hope today's video was
helpful don't forget the drop-down box
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post you will want to go there you will
be able to click on a link to get the
notes of today's session meaning all of
the 10 boosters will be there and also a
self-assessment that you can take to
answer some questions about yourself and
see what shows up alright thanks for
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take care
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