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How to flirt over text with Examples
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what's up you guys welcome to the single
guy channel I'm Lloyd and today we're
gonna be talking about how to be fun and
flirty over text in this video we're
going to cover examples of how to turn a
boring average text conversation into
something that's fun flirty something
that the girl is gonna be a lot more
attracted to and a lot more likely to go
out on a date with you
alright so the first example that I'm
gonna give you something that might be
familiar to a lot of you now it's
unnecessarily like okay it's pretty bad
so we'll start out with it
okay so we're texting a girl named Maria
hi Maria okay so the first one is he
says good morning exclamation mark
she says morning exclamation mark so
sounds like she's receiving it pretty
well he says how are you today and she
says I'm good just got into work how are
you I I think the the time stamp on this
is around you know nine nine nine
something and he goes me too about to
get the day started
alright so she doesn't respond for a
little bit and then about an hour later
he says hope you have a good day
exclamation mark okay so right off the
bat we see a lot of you know we see a
lot of things like that that could
improve from this okay first of all he
starts out with by saying good morning
now there's nothing wrong with saying
good morning I don't mind it it's kind
of cute if you want to be sweet that's a
good thing to send but don't send it all
the time it seems like this guy is kind
of in a routine already and you'll see
from his later text messages that that
is the case and then he says how are you
today she's like I'm good just got into
work and he's like me too about to get
the day started
if there's no real content in there he's
just he's just saying about to get the
day started well no [ __ ] dude you woke
up you're about to do what anyone does
about to get the day started
so it's a nothing conversation and these
are boring and it's no shock that she
didn't respond to this message and then
he gets kind of nervous in about an hour
later he says hope you have a good day
cuz he wants to send something else and
he wants to get a response and she
responds with you too I'm probably cuz
she's being nice okay now later that day
at 8:30 1:00 p.m. he says how was your
day
question mark she's like it was good
busy how was yours and then he says wow
mine was super busy too glad it's all
over
clinician mark and then she doesn't
respond to that and then again about an
hour hour and 20 minutes later he says
hope you have a good night exclamation
mark okay so this has so many things
that I would like to talk about but the
first one is that obviously there's no
there's no content to what he's saying
he's just saying average things that you
know we would assume that people are
doing you assume they're going into word
you assume they're getting this day
started but he's not giving them any
content there's nothing to talk about
here okay and if you don't want to talk
about on text that's fine but why did
you send the text message in the first
place
this girl's probably wondering she's
probably wondering you know what is this
like why is this guy messaging me like
what's the point of all these messages
is he trying to find out about my day
cuz he didn't really get any information
everyone's busy and the other thing too
is that like at this point in time why
hasn't he asked her out he's never made
any move to do anything to meet her up
with in person okay the goal of texting
the reason why you got the number in the
first place I would hope is to meet her
in real life otherwise there's no real
point in messaging that person if you're
never gonna spend time with them in real
life okay so he's made clays made no
effort to do that he's made no effort to
really have a conversation and he's just
kind of sending messages to just to
receive a message okay so she's
wondering why is this guy messaging me
is he gonna ask me out what's the point
of all this and she's probably bored
okay it's predictable he sends he sends
a goodnight message he sends a good
morning message every single day he does
two or three of these she's gonna she's
not gonna respond by the third this is
like it's just I see a lot of this and a
lot of text messages that I see it might
not be quite as bad but if you start
following into this routine you're gonna
be boring okay don't be boring all right
now let's take a look at the better
version of this so we're texting Katie
so this was kind of a message that I had
a little while back I recreated it so I
woke up and I wanted to hit her up and I
said you'll never guess the dream I had
she goes what question mark and I said
we were all dressed up and getting ready
for school when you decided to steal all
my go-gurt from my lunchbox I don't know
if you guys grew up at the same time as
me but go-gurt was like
all the rage she goes oMG hahaha
exclamation mark and then I go I chased
you around the school until a teacher
caught me and put us both in time out
and she's like no way and then I go why
you always getting me in trouble Emma
Frost haha I'm sorry okay so a couple of
things already that I'm gonna that I'm
gonna talk about first I open with
you'll never guess the dream that I had
okay that's a lot more exciting than
good morning or how was your day now
again good mornings a sweet text message
to send a lot of girls like it but you
don't send it all the time send
something exciting send something fun
this is a little bit better who isn't
gonna answer that message even though it
wasn't even a question it was more of a
statement she's like what now as you can
see she's kind of being she's giving me
these like really short answers which is
fine
she's playing ball well not playing ball
as much as I'd like but she's definitely
like engaged she's in the conversation
and there's no real reason why she has
to type more so a lot of guys they tend
to stress about how much mess how much
like text the girl sending so if they
figure if this girl's sending a lot more
text message than me that's good or if
I'm sending a lot more text messages
than her texts than her that's bad in
general I'd say if you're pursuing a
chick or if you're going after a girl
you're probably gonna be sending this
but sending a little bit more text than
her anyway but that's not what you
should be looking for you should look at
her engagement okay so even though I'm
sending a lot more text it's not
necessarily bad okay and she goes haha
I'm sorry exclamation mark and then I go
no stealing food when we get tacos
exclamation mark now previously I had
talked about getting tacos with her at
Taco Tuesday at one of the bars in the
mission so where we already have that
established and I was able to work in
remind her about that date that we have
remind her about tacos and then she goes
LOL exclamation mark I'll make sure I
use my powers for good this time okay
now she's playing ball okay when I
called her Emma Frost and the frost is a
I don't know if you guys watch x-men but
she's like one of the one of the heroes
or villains in it and so she kind of has
white hair and this girl kind of had
like a
blonde hair so that's I called her Emma
Frost nicknames are really good to use
when you're when you start talking to a
girl you like cuz it gives you like a
little bit of an inside joke that you
can both be a part of she goes she rolls
with the nickname now she's like she's
commenting on my dream and she's playing
ball this is great so I say for the
greater good of tacos I do hope so
and she goes hahaha what are you doing
okay the end message should indicate
that this totally worked that she's like
she wants to she's thinking about me she
wants to know what I'm doing if a girl
sends you this message she's interested
in you man
so the way this works I brought it up in
a moment and I'm a fun playful manner
and got her engaged there was content
there was everything there and you know
I must say the dream didn't exactly go
down that way but it's a dream I mean
it's made up anyway so the point of this
was I wanted to flirt with her I wanted
to like you know be fun playful over
text and I wanted to do it in a way
that's engaging so this is kind of what
you should be you should be doing anyway
you don't have to use the whole dream
thing I like to use that a lot but if
something funny happened to you that day
like you'll never guess what happened to
me or you know I bet I can I bet I my
weekend can beat up your weekend or
something like that these are all like
really good messages to send that are a
lot more fun and playful than just how
are you doing you know which aren't
necessarily bad but there's better ways
of saying it so hopefully you see from
this kind of how to tackle flirting when
it comes to texting okay women love the
story if you make it seem really
engaging descriptive and visual it's
gonna be a lot better than just your
average message now again with these I
wouldn't stress about these individual
text messages too much experimenting
you'll get better as time goes on but
the few things that I told you to focus
on I think you should try and bring that
to your arsenal try and make the date
seem a little bit more fun than just
your average everyday thing and I think
your success is gonna go up a lot more
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