i want to talk about ways that i like to
show intent as well one other way that i
like to do it is just i just like to
call it
the high value compliment okay so it's
me pointing out something about the girl
that i genuinely like that i'm attracted
to i just genuinely compliment the girl
there's a way to do this all right
because i think most guys think like oh
well if you're complimenting the girl
isn't that like putting her up on a
pedestal
yes in a certain way it can be that's
pedestrianizing her that's complimenting
her from a position of you're below her
and she's just like amazing
right that's the guys that are like oh
my god like
you're so beautiful i'd love to take you
out sometime guys please take you out
sometime what i like to do though is
it's coming from a place
where the girl isn't above me if
anything like we're equal or anything
i'm almost like slightly above her and i
just noticed this thing that i really
like but it's not a big deal to me i'm
just like
no i actually just noticed i really like
that you have this and this like that's
that's really
blah blah okay that's like the position
it's coming from pro tip
i often times don't like it to be a
physical thing about the girl
or if it is a physical thing
it's going to be something small about
the girl that she oftentimes doesn't get
complimented on right like
yeah eyebrows is
pretty subtle main thing is it's just
not a generic compliment about how
beautiful she is how breathtaking she is
how nice of a body she has it's not
those things me personally i like to do
her personality
or her viewpoint on the world or how
independent she is i like those i like
those concepts or a nice one is like the
smile i like smile like any one of those
things or like even the eyes but it
needs to be at the right time i don't
like open with these things we're like
in the interaction there's already been
a good vibe going on there's already a
little bit of teasing and playfulness
and back and forth going on at some
point we're in some get to know you at
some point i could say my boy he almost
got kicked out of the club got kicked
out of the club and she starts laughing
as i'm telling you so he literally got
kicked out of the club by the way i
actually just know he's like wow a
really nice smile by the way
yeah that's like wow it's like really
cute i like your smile but but look
check this my boy it's not like oh my
god it's amazing i like just noticed it
and i can really appreciate it i like
acknowledged it it was really genuine
and i liked it and i even said it was
cute
and then i kept going with the topic
most guys when they flirt with the girl
they put so much pressure on the girl
that's not the right emotion that she
wants man that's not what's gonna get
her most times when there's pressure the
girl's gonna reject you or back away or
politely decline you just straight out
of nervousness or pressure and that's
the problem with most guys they go wow
excuse me like i thought you were really
hot i was wondering if i could buy you a
drink i was wondering if i could take
you off sometime i was wondering if i
could get your number there's a lot of
pressure on that moment
there's so much pressure on that moment
it goes back oh that's so thank you but
i really have a boyfriend she doesn't
have a boyfriend she just she's
so pressured the only way for her to
back out of that situation is to decline
you politely i have clients that are
like oh i'm sorry i keep hearing every
girl i met and i had a boyfriend that's
so crazy kyle no dude they didn't you
just put so much pressure on her
okay that they just say that the way you
avoid putting the pressure on her is
exactly what i was just telling you have
the right vibe the right energy the
right communication we tease her and
then when we compliment her we add that
tease at the end of the compliment like
you're cute but blank it takes the
pressure off of her now she's focused on
the i'm not a brat what are you talking
about
but she still hears the part that we
told her we thought she was cute
or if i told her about the high value
compliment when i genuinely said i liked
your smile and i thought it was actually
really cute by the way
but i go back to the story
it takes the attention off of the fact
that i gave her that compliment that's
it man that's how you compliment the
girl that's how you could show intent to
the girl
hope you guys enjoyed this video and by
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