Tripp Kramer here from
www.trippadvice.com. Today I'm gonna give you
5 amazing compliments to give a girl.
We're gonna get right into these.
Not gonna waste any time. I'm gonna
tell you what they are. But I want you to
stick around to the end? Why? Because you
have to understand the context in which
to use compliments. Guys really get
compliments all wrong so we got to set
that straight. Before we get into that,
let's talk about what these 5 are.
Anything along the lines of "you look
gorgeous", "you look beautiful", "you look
stunning", "you look adorable". Anything like that.
It's a great compliment to use when
you're talking to a girl. With this
specific compliment you got to be
careful here. You got to be careful
because if you use the same one all the
time; let's say you're dating a girl for
a while. Every time she comes over, you
say "man you look beautiful". Of course
that's gonna make her feel great but
it's crazy how when you use the same
words over and over they just don't have
the same effect. If you want this type
of compliment to really just like mm
pierce through her, make her melt, make
her feel good around you then try to
change up the words a little bit.
Don't use the same words to describe how she
looks in terms of her looks.
Here's another compliment. It's a little
bit indirect. It's not pointing something
at her and saying hey you are this but
it is indirectly a compliment. You want
to say to her "when do I get to see you
again?" You can use this one
really anytime. The first time you
meet a girl and you guys are hitting it
off, maybe you're about to get her number
and you can't get her to leave
with you or whatever then you say "when do I
get to see you again?" Again you
don't want to say this all the time.
This is like a one-and-done kind of thing.
Use this once. You use it too much, it's not
going to seem special. It's gonna seem
very canned. Something that
you've been maybe learning from a
youtube video. You want to make sure
that you use that every once in a while.
Maybe on a second third date say it for
the first time. "When do I get to
see you again?" Here's another one:
say something about her style. This is a good one.
Women put a lot of energy, a lot of work,
most women I'd say put a lot of energy
into what they look like.
Their style whatever that style is. Whatever
kind of style they're going for in the
way that they wear their jewelry or
their hair. The way that they dress up,
their overall style. Compliment her on that.
Say that to her. Say "You know
you have really good style." And you gotta
be careful here because some of these
things can come off very sarcastic.
Make sure you're delivering it in such a
proper tone where she knows you're
serious. Do it in a way where the way
that you're talking to her is very
seductive. You're looking her in the eye,
you're talking in the tone that I'm talking
to you now and you say "Wow, you have
really great style. "If you do it with a big
smile on your face you could come off
like you're being sarcastic. We don't
want that. It's not like "You have really
good style." No "You have really good style."
Here's another great one: this one
is usually used if you guys have been
dating for a while.
Compliment a part of her body that is
not over sexualized. A lot of
guys think that oh you got a compliment
a girls butt, boobs and hips and face and
all that stuff. Throw that away. Instead
why don't you compliment parts of her
body that are not normally talked about.
I know it sounds kind of funny but it's
gonna come off cute when you say it.
Compliment here on her ears or her
feet or even her elbows.
Complimenting her on a part of her body
and using a descriptive word to go along
with it. You can say "Your
elbows are adorable" or "Your feet are
so sexy." I know it sounds kind of
funny but complimenting her on these
parts of her body and being serious
about it can be a really strong compliment
because she doesn't usually get
Don't forget right now we're being
very superficial. Meaning, we're only
talking about the surface level stuff
like what she looks like. You want to
compliment her on her personality as well.
One of the best ways to
compliment her on her personality is by
commenting on either her sense of humor
saying "wow you're funny
you make me laugh" or "you're a very funny
person." Again being serious, not being
sarcastic about it.
Or complimenting her on her brains.
Meaning something along the lines
of you think she's smart or just
saying that right to her like
"you're a pretty smart girl". Again very easy
to come off sarcastic here so she might
be like "wait are you being serious?"
"No I'm serious like you're very
smart. I like that." So you're
complimenting her on her personality and
girls love to be told that they think
that they're smart and hopefully you're
not lying and hopefully meeting a girl who
you believe is smart and funny and
beautiful and has adorable feet whatever it is.
But use them if you really mean them.
Here really quickly let me go
into the context of this cuz I gotta be
careful here with compliments. Guys, well they
love videos that I put out talking about
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Guys you love compliments, you love
to use them. However you got to be
careful. If you do it too much, what
you're gonna do is we're gonna
desensitize her to the idea of
compliments. If you're complimenting
her all the time, if you're using the
whole list that I gave you, it's gonna be
too much. It's gonna be overkill. You want
to have a little bit of chase in there.
In order to get a girl to chase you a
little bit, you don't want to throw out
too much validation. There's got to
be a little bit of mystery. I like the
balance of letting a girl know "hey I'm
interested in you so I'm gonna throw out
a compliment". But it's gonna be seldom.
Now I'm not saying to play
games or be a jerk or whatever. I'm just
saying you don't need to shower
her with compliments all the time. It can
be overkill. It can be too much. We want a
little bit of mystery in there.
Here's my advice to you; is take one of these
compliments and just perfect it. Just use
it with the girls that you meet.
Of course hopefully you mean it but
use one and then chill for a while.
Give her one when you first
meet her. Maybe just one, maybe on like
the third or fourth date give her
another one. A couple days later give her
another one because these are very
powerful. When you use them, they're
going to tell the girl wow you're
interested which is fine but we only
want to do that to a degree so it
doesn't seem like you're being needy or
over doing it. Alright, sound good? Now if you
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compliment, go in the description
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