one question I'm asked constantly by
viewers like you and by my coaching
clients is how can I tell if my breakup
is only temporary and that folks is what
we'll be discussing right here in this
brand-new video I'm Brad browning the
number one breakup coach on YouTube and
for the past 12 years I've been helping
people from around the world to get over
a tough breakup and start over with an
ex to get my personal help with your
situation
just visit breakupbrad.com/coaching and
learn how you can work with me
one-on-one to get a second chance with
your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend now
how do you tell if your breakup is not
going to last how do you know if your ex
is going to take you back well here are
the top seven signs sign number one your
ex is sending mixed messages so if your
ex has been giving you the the hot and
cold treatment since breaking up that's
actually often a strong indication that
he or she is internally conflicted about
the decision to breakup and may soon
give in to their feelings and decide to
take you back now what do I mean by
mixed messages well for example if your
ex sends you a late-night text saying I
miss you one day and then the next day
they completely ignore you or tell them
that you tell you that you never want to
talk to you again that's a mixed message
now again these types of back and forth
signals that your ex is sending are
almost always an indication that your ex
is having second thoughts about breaking
up now it can be because they initially
thought that that going your separate
ways was the right thing to do but now
they're struggling emotionally with the
breakup and fighting an internal battle
with themselves trying to decide if they
made a mistake breaking up with you now
I've actually made another previous
video on this exact topic which you can
watch by clicking the pop-up banner here
in the corner or by clicking the link
that I'll put in the description below
and sign number two is your ex is
contacting you frequently now this is
another strong indication that your ex
isn't fully committed to the breakup at
least they're not a hundred percent
confident that they're ready to let you
walk out of their life now if they're
reaching out to you on their own
frequently especially if it's not for
any reason other than to just you know
catch up or see how you're doing then
clearly they still need and want you in
their life sign number three your ex
gets emotional now just think about it
for a second you know if you had broken
up with someone and you were totally
confident it was the right decision if
you were truly over them and ready to
move on without looking back would you
still be emotional when thinking about
that person would you break into tears
when you saw that person or tell him or
her about how much heartache the
break-up is causing you probably not so
for that reason your ex becoming
emotional around you have
breaking up or even just showing any
kind of pain and loneliness in general
is a strong indicator of someone who
hasn't moved on and might be so
emotionally affected by the break-up
that they break down and beg for you to
come back and sign number four your ex
is still angry at you now this is a
weird one and a lot of people are
skeptical when I tell them that an angry
ex is often actually a good thing if you
want to get back together in my many
years of experience as a breakup coach
however it's become clear to me that
this is often a very positive sign why
well honestly it's pretty simple if your
ex is still angry at you they're still
emotionally invested in you and your
time spent together now of course there
are some exceptions to this if you did
something truly terrible to your ex you
know whether you cheated on them or said
some really horrible things to your ex
then their anger probably isn't a good
thing but if there wasn't anything bad
that led to your breakup and yet your ex
continues to hang on to little arguments
and disagreements long after breaking up
that's usually an indication that
they're still thinking about you
regularly and emotionally invested in
you and your past relationship and sign
number five you scored 75 or higher on
my free quiz now if you have watched any
of my other videos here on YouTube then
you've probably already taken my free
quiz to find out whether you still have
a chance to get back with your ex and if
you did indeed take that quiz and your
score was 75 or higher that's a very
good sign that he or she is also
interested in getting back together or
at the very least thinking about it now
if you haven't already taken the quiz
just go to breakupbrad.com a slash quiz
and take it right now for free um it
only takes less than 5 minutes and
you'll see a detailed results report as
well as your score out of a hundred
now the quiz results will give you a
very good indication of whether your ex
is interested in taking you back a score
above 70 or so is definitely cause for
optimism and anything above 75 suggests
that your ex is probably missing you and
possibly wanting you back again you can
take that quiz for yourself at
breakupbrad.com
it's now sign number six your ex is
asking mutual friends about you and what
you've been up to since the break-up now
honestly you'd be surprised about how
often this actually happens to my
coaching clients so you might be in the
same boat if you've heard from mutual
friends that your ex is asking about you
and curious about how you been doing
since breaking up now if this is the
case for you then that's another very
positive sign if he or she was done with
you and had fully moved on chances are
they're not gonna care very much what
you're up to right now
and finally sign number seven your ex
gets jealous when they find
that you're dating again or you're
seeing someone new alright folks this
may be the final sign but it's also one
of the most telling if your ex you know
gets it all jealous when they learn that
you've been dating again or that you're
already with somebody new then that's a
surefire sign that they're not over you
even people with an incredibly jealous
personality in general will stop caring
about this kind of thing when they fully
moved on so if your ex is getting
jealous for any reason after your
breakup that's a very clear indication
that they still care about you and they
aren't ready to watch you walk out of
their life and into someone else's arms
so if this does describe your situation
then you have plenty of reason to be
optimistic about your chances of getting
back together now if you're sitting here
watching this video and you haven't seen
any of these seven signs from your ex
don't start panicking yet or lose all
hope you may still have a chance so
start by taking my free quiz at
breakupbrad.com
slash quiz to see where you stand right
now with your ex if you get a really low
score then it may be time to move on if
your score is above 60 65 ish then you
may still have a good chance at getting
them back alright and thanks for
watching don't forget to leave your
comments and questions below the video I
always look forward to chatting with you
guys in the comments and good luck out
there and I'll see you in my next video
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